Hello all.
Almost exactly a month ago I purchased my first chinchilla for my girlfriend and I to take care of. All in all, he's energetic, well tempered, and cute as hell.
When I first got him, he warmed up to me putting my hand in his cage after a day or so. I'd set a raisin in the middle of my hand, move it up some, etc. However, I still haven't got to "hold" him unless it's by the base of the tail.
I ended up letting him out to explore my room a day or two after getting him. At first, he would run around the room, climbing and jumping, letting out all of his energy, then eventually returning to his cage on his own accord. Now however, I feel as though we've let him out far too much without letting him get used to us first.
Now, as soon as I open the cage to pet him, clean, feed, etc, he tries to get out. Every time he gets excited, he runs to the side of the cage and sticks paws at the air furiously, wanting to get out. It seems as though he no longer will pay us any attention unless we're the magical hand that's letting him get out of his cage.
So, my question is: How can we get him to stop instantly darting for the cage door as soon as we open it? ... and Secondly: How can I get him to warm up enough for me to hold him without him frantically trying to get down so he can run around?
It's not that he acts scared or tries to hide from us, it's just that he simply seems to rather run around than let us play with him personally.
Thanks in advance!