Thanks for all of the advice. I have decided to rehome one of the males to a very good friend of mine that lives next door. He is doing well. In the mean time, I have the other male and the female separated but in the same room. I couldn't bare giving up my little white baby after driving so far to get her, plus, she is super sweet and loves to be held. We will see where this takes us. As far as the ears, I took Buster to the vet and he gave me some ointment to put on them so they would heal but he said no matter what he did, it was very unlikely that they would heal back together and it won't affect him any. He just looks a little weird. That's ok though, I love him and he's still my special guy. A big lesson learned though. I was in tears that I had made such a horrible mistake but your words of kindness and wisdom has really helped. Thanks so much everyone!
Happy again in Denver,
Steven