... my first chinchilla, a male ... I wanted him to have a companion. ... a few months ago ... store assured me was a male was actually a female. ... she is young maybe 5-7 months ... I fear that separating them even into separate cages might break their hearts. ....
She could easily already be pregnant. But it is not the emotional heart break that you should be the most concerned about at this time ... it's the physical complications that you need to be concerned about. She is not mature enough to be having kits and may not be able to deliver the kits naturally and could die trying.
so don't have much money in order to set up a whole new cage as the one we have now (equipt with large metal wheel, hammock, ledges, and toys).
The necessary cage does not have to be full of extras.
I've read that it is really dangerous for a chinchilla to be neutured/spayed. Is this really true?
Yes, especially since they have a tendency not to do well with any surgery ... even less of a chance if vet has not preformed many, many of these on chinchillas and knows what he is doing. Also, the spaying or neutering is allot more in cost than a second cage.
... Is it dangerous to keep them together now ...
(Like Debbie said.) Yes, it is dangerous to even let them play together. It has been dangerous ever since the female turned 3 1/2 months old. It only takes 15 to 30 seconds to get a female chinchilla pregnant.
I mean it wouldn't be the end of the world if she did get pregnant but I'm not sure I could support it if she kept getting pregnant several times.
It might be the end of her world.
I do not mean to sound hateful ...It is not your fault that the pet store employee did not know what she/he was doing ... but ... now that you know she is a female ... it is up to you to do what is best for her.
Jo Ann