JoAnn, I am so sorry about the baby. I know you had said that you didn't have a lot of hope when she was born, but it's still hard to lose one. I know she had the best chance possible with you watching over her...I guess it just wasn't meant to be.
My understanding is that 45 grams is about the average weight for a newborn, but they can fluctuate in either direction by 5-10 grams and still be healthy.
As for my kits, I am going to be selling most of the kits bred here...I think if I tried to keep them all my husband might just leave me
The kit Jamie just had is going to be staying at least for a year or so, since Jamie's last kit died suddenly and unexpectedly. I am going to keep this one around until I am sure he is good and healthy. But the tan girl will probably be leaving me in late September or so, assuming I can find a good home for her, of course.