We had a visit from the breeders on Monday that we bought Chong, our four month old violet from. They came to have a look at Cheech and he is in fact a she.
It's going to be tough to swap over to saying her.
We're still having a little trouble getting them to like each other. We've been putting them into a small cage together but Cheech seems to get really agitated with the lack of space which she takes out on Chong after about half an hour. We put both their houses in there and once put in the sand bath too, but Chong snarled at Cheech if she tried to use the sand bath. Cheech just sat in Chong's house and hoarded all the toys, pulling them up to the entrance and lying on them, and then they started to get snappy with each other. We'll keep on trying, there have been no more injuries other than a little bit of fur flying... so fingers crossed.
Perhaps in half a year or so we might have one or two new additions, but that of course leads to a whole new set of questions.
The other thing I realised was about Chong and his 'equipment', which I saw him cleaning a day or so ago, and this is a really weird question, but how big is it supposed to be? His was about 2 inches long and I was so shocked. I hope that's okay to ask here.