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Chit Chat / Re: How you know you met your sole mate?

« on: December 03, 2010, 03:50:57 PM »

Yeah. that is an expensive place to live, bit i'v never been there. That's good that your able to be comfortably financial  in a place like LA.

Dan I broke up yesterday. I know its for the best, but it still stinks. It was kinda mutual though, which is good. He knew that I wasn't happy. We agreed that its not the right time for us and just left it at that. He said that he's giving me money with his next paycheck so well see about that. He also said that he wants to be friends.  I have to see him tom be i'm taking the cats to get there shots and then i have to give him the keys to the apt and get the rest of my stuff out except for a few things i'm leaving for him for now.

If i had to work when i have kids, which i know is a long time away, i'd like to only have to work part time. I live in ohio, so things aren't expensive like they are where you live.

I'm trying to not fall back into going back to one of my exes like i always do. We always say that if were ment to be together then we would bc we dated when we were 16-19. He's always single when I am. I love his family to. But i'm going to try to be single for awhile.

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Chit Chat / Re: How you know you met your sole mate?

« on: November 30, 2010, 07:00:18 PM »

Thanks, Thats good advice chins. My current bf was the only guy that has ever swepted me off my feet. Officiously that has changed now. I can't believe how in-love i was with him in our first 6 months. I want someone to sweep me off my feet, like my chins, and give me my fairy tail proposal and wedding. Part of the reason I want that money he owes me is because i'm barely making any money. I'm done draining my savings to help him. He has deff been understanding. I'v been stressed about school. I don't think my family is ever too kine on my bfs. They like them, but they want to be with someone that can support me down the road. They know i'd love to be a stay at home mom. They'd like be to be with someone that has a 4 yr degree. That's not that important to me as being happy is.

I was talking to this old friend of mine for a week. I know its stupid but i was soo crazy about him. He asked me to go to a wedding with him. and then I didn't hear from him for a week and i was freaking out. His phone had broke and he had to wait to get a new one in the mail. So when he got his new phone he got alot of messages from me and that was that. Which i think is kinda crappy. He could have atleast sent me a facebook message. I really liked him. I can't think of someone else that i know or meet that i'd more then him.

I'm glad that you were able to find the right guy for you! How did you meet him? That stinks about your job and boss. I hope that once you finish school you will be able to have a job you enjoy more and is less stress. I really like your quote.

My friend has a profile on one of those dating pages. I'm a little iffy about that. I'd rather meet them the old fashion way, but it may not hurt either.

jmdebb, thanks. I know the money issue is always going to bother me. He's in a dead end job. I work hard for the money i have and to save it. I want to be able to have a house and hopefully be able to be a stay at home mom one day.

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Q & A / Re: In the same room together?...& tv questions

« on: November 30, 2010, 06:44:32 PM »

Ha, thats funny that he's in love with hannah montana.

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General Chat / Re: i hate people

« on: November 29, 2010, 04:17:52 PM »

That's great she is doing so well!

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Health / Re: chinchilla dander

« on: November 25, 2010, 06:28:37 PM »

i wasn't going to give them fish oil. I sow white spots inbetween pogo's fur which is a standard. Snowie is white so i haven.t seen any on him. I thought exocitice vets knew about chins. Thats what my vet is. He did a great job knowing how to fix pogos foot.

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Chit Chat / Re: How you know you met your sole mate?

« on: November 24, 2010, 11:48:34 PM »

wow, you've had a hardlife. I'm glad you able to find someone you were truly met to be with. Your sweet and thanks for the advice. And there's more to it then that. At times i belive i want to marry him and times when i don't. I do want to be wit someone i'm inlove with. Part of it is that i'm 25, i want to get married and start a family in a few yrs. i think bc he's always been bad wit money, he's in a dead end job. Says he's been looking for jobs but in a yr he's had one interview.  he says he's been apply but i don't think he has. I know its a bad time to look for a job but he's got good manager expirence.

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General Chat / Re: i hate people

« on: November 24, 2010, 09:44:09 PM »

Thats a good idea. I'v thought of that with my cats, but not with my chins

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Chit Chat / How you know you met your sole mate?

« on: November 24, 2010, 07:18:08 PM »

I know many people say that when you met them you just know. What if you meet them and you know and then over time things change and you get to know them better and live together and move out and what not, and your not soo sure anymore. To me its a sign that its not the right person. To keep this short, he owes me $5000 plus/minus ( mostly for teeth work= dentures, hes 30 and i'm 25.) and my 2 kitty's live with him and always have. My family is allergic to cats. They did do pretty good when I had them for a month at my parents house. 

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Chit Chat / Ipad or other tablet

« on: November 24, 2010, 07:14:40 PM »

Does anyone on here have an Ipad or any other kind of tablet or know anyone that has one? I'd like to get one. I'v found many different kinds online but I think i can only get them online and not in a store, vs an ipad which I can buy at a store. I'm not thrilled with apple, but i'm iffy about buying something like this online. I'v read reviews on some brands and some like them and some hate them.

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Chit Chat / Re: friends vet told him that his dog should be put to sleep

« on: November 24, 2010, 07:11:43 PM »

Aww, thanks both of you.

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General Chat / Re: i hate people

« on: November 24, 2010, 10:39:33 AM »

Well good luck with her xray. Thats great that she is doing much better!

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Chit Chat / friends vet told him that his dog should be put to sleep

« on: November 23, 2010, 09:23:27 PM »

So i have to vent for a min. I was on the phone with my friend. and he was telling me that he took his old dog to the vet. I forget exacetly what is wrong with his dog, but he has arthritis or something and can't really walk anymore. He was telling me how he has to carry her to go pee outside and stuff. So pretty much the only thing the dog can do is lay around. The vet said that she's old and nothing he can do for her. He has to decide to put her down or ask a few other vets.

I know its hard to decied to put a dog down. When i was about 13, we had to put our golden retriever of 10 yrs down. He was having seizers and each once got worse where he'd forget how to walk and forget who we were and stuff. He had a brain tumor and the vet couldn't do anything more for him.

I know the situations are different, but i feel sorry for his dog. That's no like for her anymore and she had a great life. and she's in pain. I'm sure he will notice it and i'm sure it won't be easy for him to do.

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Health / Re: chinchilla dander

« on: November 22, 2010, 03:59:02 PM »

I talked to the nurse and she said that dander is caused by not having enough fatty acids and to give them human fish oil tablets about every other day. She said it could also be caused by the dust bath.

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General Chat / Re: how long to wait before letting a chin that had a broken leg run on a saucer

« on: November 22, 2010, 03:57:24 PM »

Well of course they said it was fine to use it. I'm just iffy bc i know that his leg broke  once so that it can be easyer to brake again and they go pretty fast on the saucer. I'm going to let them use it tonight!

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Health / Re: chinchilla dander

« on: November 21, 2010, 09:41:19 AM »

I know people can get it. I just never thought pets could get it.