Thank you so much for accepting me to your forum! I am in desperate need of advice, and have been waiting all day to post!
I have 3 chinchillas. Chinny was my first, but she seemed lonely, so I got her a friend named Bella. They've been living together a bit less than a year, very happily. My fiance and I recently purchased a ferret nation cage for them, which has allowed them to have a lot of space. We would comment that maybe we could get a third chinchilla to add to the family. Well, I saw a very adorable 9 month old ebony chinchilla at my local shelter, so we decided to take her in, and add her as a final member to the family, and named her Bebe. We put them all in the bathroom for play time to see how they'd get along, and things seemed to be going very well. They were all smelling each other and playing nicely.
So, we decided to put Bebe into the cage, since they seemed to get along. Things were okay at first. Bella and Chinny were resting together in their house, and Bebe was upstairs by herself. She finally decided to come downstairs and perch herself on one of the downstairs perches. Well, Chinny did not like that, and started bothering her, and then started chasing her around the cage. So when Chinny went back downstairs, we put in a separator so that Chinny and Bella could not get to Bebe. We put a towel to cover the cage separator, so that they wouldn't be able to see each other.
They seemed a bit frustrated that the top portion of the cage was closed off, but after a while seemed to be doing okay. Bebe moved the towel over so that she could see them, and they looked at each other for a little bit, but didn't seem to be hissing at each other or anything. Then we decided to bring them into the bathroom for some more play time, and this time Chinny kept attacking Bebe
. So we put them back in the cage separated. I guess this was a bad idea, because after a while, Chinny became very grumpy. She went into her house and wouldn't come out. Then Bella would go over to Chinny, and she would make grumpy noises, like, "Go away! Don't bother me!"
We finally decided to move Bebe into her own cage, because we obviously did not like Chinny being upset. So I had to get a cage, that used to be used for a guinea pig a long time ago, to put Bebe into. That's how they were for the whole night, and the whole night, Chinny just stayed in her house and would make grumpy noises whenever Bella would come near her. Then, in the morning, when we woke up, Bella wanted to go to sleep as usual, with Chinny. And Chinny would continue being grumpy and telling her to go away.
My boyfriend and I had to go to work... and now we came home, and Chinny and Bella seem to be even more angry at each other. Chinny makes angry noises whenever Bella gets near her, and Bella attacks Chinny whenever she tries to leave her house now. We're thinking about taking Chinny and Bella into the bathroom for play together to see what happens, and if that helps. Then, tomorrow, once the pet stores open, we're thinking about buying another water bottle and food bowl, so that we can separate Chinny and Bella... but we have to wait until then, because we don't want to deny either of them either of those things (even though, right now, Chinny can't even leave her house
).
Please help! I feel like such a horrible chinchilla mom!!! I didn't want my chinchillas to all become so moody and angry and frightened
. And I don't want to return Bebe to the shelter, obviously, since she deserves a loving home. But I don't want my other two chinchillas to be completely frustrated either!
I was really hoping they could all live together happily in a pack. But I should have gotten so ahead of myself! What have I done???